Healing That Ripples Outward

Professional counseling for individuals, couples, children, and families. EMDR consultation for individuals and groups. Trauma-informed therapy to help you heal and reconnect with safety, self, and relationship.

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“Putting one foot in front of the other is similar to a healing process, where the journey might take you to a destination more incredible than you could have imagined. We may need to persevere to get through the difficulty to be able to discover our freedom and peace.”

~ Michelle Gay

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Meet michelle
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For Clients:
A Space with care and compassion

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Just like a ripple spreads from a single drop, healing can begin with one small moment of connection.

At A Ripple Affect, you will find a gentle, collaborative, and trauma-informed counselling space for individuals, couples, families, and children. Services are offered both in-person and online.

Michelle offers an approach that includes Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Ego States Therapy, somatic practices, and tools from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). She specializes in EMDR Intensives for those seeking more flexibility with scheduling.

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For Therapists:
EMDR Consultation & Certification

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Whether you are just beginning to integrate EMDR or preparing for EMDRIA certification or consultant status, consultation can offer the grounding and guidance you need to grow with confidence.

Michelle is an EMDRIA Approved Consultant who has supported therapists since 2013. She offers steady, collaborative consultation designed to help you deepen your skills, build your voice, and feel supported in the process.

Services include:

  • Individual & group consultation

  • Certification and consultant-in-training support

  • Case consultation and niche development

  • A supportive, confidential space to reflect and grow

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Training & Groups

Expand your clinical skills and connect with others in meaningful, practice-changing spaces. Michelle offers EMDRIA-approved trainings and learning groups designed for both professional growth and deep personal insight.

Opportunities include:

  • Advanced EMDR workshops (with CEs)

  • Small group case consultations

  • Trauma-informed book clubs

  • Practicum facilitation and support

Upcoming training details and registration are available on the Trainings page.

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Who i

work with

Adults & Children

Individual counselling for adults and children to support healing from trauma, anxiety, grief, and emotional overwhelm.

Families & Couples

Relational therapy for couples and families, with a focus on strengthening connection, communication, and repair. Specialized EMDR support available for children and caregivers.

Clinicians & Professionals

EMDRIA consultation and training support for therapists building their EMDR practice.

Testimonials

  • “I have had the pleasure of knowing Michelle Gay since 2010. She is a truly outstanding human being, and one of the most compassionate, knowledgeable, and skillful clinicians and EMDRIA approved consultants I have encountered. Michelle was instrumental in my path to become a Certified EMDR Therapist, and her guidance has been invaluable to me. I recommend her wholeheartedly to anyone seeking the highest quality therapy and those seeking to enhance their practice of EMDR Therapy.”

    — CK

  • “I feel grateful to have Michelle as my teacher, mentor, and colleague. She is a highly skilled and wise clinician. When I decided to upgrade my level of knowledge and became a Certified EMDR clinician, Michelle provided all the hours, direction, and skills needed to meet my goals. It was such a pleasure to have Michelle guide, teach, and facilitate my EMDR Certification.”

    — KM

  • “Ms. Gay has shown herself to be a highly ethical and culturally sensitive therapist, who is bright, intuitive, and compassionate. I believe Michelle to be a significant asset in the role of consultant to the EMDR community of professionals.”

    — SN

  • “Michelle was present, knowledgeable and had a warm presence during the basic EMDR in-person training I took. She was responsive to questions and provided insightful feedback. And while her presence was warm and helped create a safe learning environment, she also was honest and direct (in a good way), so I felt like I could grow as a clinician.”

    — GS

  • “I appreciated Michelle’s gentle approach. She explained concepts clearly and responded to questions thoughtfully and patiently. I think because I had her early on, it was extra helpful that she was so gentle and that it truly felt like there was space to ask questions – nothing would be deemed too silly or a dumb question. That sense of being held and encouraged was extra important at the start as we were all still finding our footing.”

    — Anonymous

  • “She is clearly very well-versed in the practice and had excellent suggestions. Her gentle nature created a very safe space quickly, which was very appreciated and tremendously helpful to support learning for new practitioners.”

    — Anonymous

  • “Michelle offered really thoughtful guidance and feedback, and I learned something from the discussion of every case discussed.”

    — Anonymous

  • “Michelle Gay was an excellent consultant with a calm and relaxed presence. She assisted in directing us when we weren't sure how to proceed from desensitization to installation. I learned the installation and body scan can clear up anything we didn't in the desensitization. Very knowledgeable. Thank you!”

    — Anonymous

  • “Michelle was very knowledgeable and helpful. I really enjoyed her instructions and the sharing of her professional experiences. I continued to develop more understanding and willingness to keep practicing. She answered all of my questions and was very present during the practical.”

    — Anonymous

  • “Yes! Beautifully prepared! Michelle answered all of our questions. I really appreciated the feedback on timing of bilateral stimulation, how to use the wand, the use of intensives, changing the direction of stimulation and why, and how the higher level of dot may help process earlier memories. Thank you so much, Michelle!”

    — Anonymous

  • “She was great! Calm and collected and clearly knows her stuff.”

    — Anonymous

  • “Michelle was great; she was available for questions and provided guidance right when we needed it. She also offered feedback on cognitive interweaves that was very much appreciated.”

    — Anonymous

  • “Michelle is an excellent consultant! I appreciate her calm, respectful approach and her impressive knowledge of EMDR. She provided a safe environment to ask questions, learn, and grow!”

    — Anonymous

Let the Next Step Be Easy

Start with a free 20-minute consultation to learn more about the process, ask questions, and explore how hit approach can meet your needs.

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Let’s Talk

You have already done the hard part; you’ve chosen to seek support. Whether you are navigating personal healing or looking to grow as a therapist, you don’t have to figure it out alone.

For counseling and consultation, you can schedule directly through the A Ripple Affect scheduling portal.
For training and general inquiries, please use the contact form below.

When you’re ready, reach out. Together, we’ll take the next right step on your path.